The Business

Don't laugh, but I'm now learning the Business Side of Things.

This involves things like balance sheets and complex diagrams outlining our marketing strategies, learning the tactics of effective promotion, and being thrown in the deep end of all those people out there: the marketplace.

It's horribly frightening.

But well, books don't sell themselves. It's no good producing beautiful books unless people know about them, buy them and read them. So we're pulling up our business socks and getting out there in the world.

It would be amusing really, if I was a fly on the wall, looking at ourselves with our heads in our hands, muttering and sighing and cringing at our desperate lack of business sense.

This is what it's about, I suppose? Dharma isn't just about doing what you like to do. It certainly isn't all about sitting with our hands on our laps, in an idyllic state of meditation, having psychic tea with the Buddhas.

It's about this constant state of panic that makes you grow (well, I hope I do grow through this exercise), feeling the hard smack of trying something new and falling flat *smack* on your face. You'll never know if you don't try, whisper the guardian angels, before they collapse about us laughing.

Okay, no, not really. I don't suppose Guardian angels really engage in that sort of mockery.

So the whole KMP is working hard to learn in a matter of days what people study through a whole university course. Impossible is nothing, say Adidas and I am inclined to believe them. Positive affirmation is the only way forward as we navigate the tricky paths of business.

Honestly, if only I could find myself a Donald Trump. In my post-it notes to Buddha tonight: Dear Buddha, Please send me a rich husband. It would help an awful, awful lot!

London: The most gorgeous book launch of the year

Oh my! Well, did you know a book launch could be so splendid!

Thanks to the super kindness and support of Joan and Terry Mahony, who so kindly hosted the evening, KMP held it's first international book launch today. We brought the revised edition of Gurus for Hire, Enlightenment for Sale to the world today at the very beautiful, cosmopolitan heart of the exclusive Cadogan Gardens, just off Sloane Square.


The event saw almost 80 people at the lovely venue all of whom lent great support to our newest title. The launch was well received by a broad section of society, ranging from corporate heads to philantropists to students and international journalists.

Among the vast and varied guest list were Martin Barrow, Francois de Witt and France Berveiller Choa, who so kindly gave endorsements for the book and had flown into London especially for the launch; shoe god Dato' Jimmy Choo; the Malaysian High Commissioner's press officer, Revi Pillai; Mr and Mrs MacKay from the Kensington Palace and The Star's London correspondent Choi Tuck Wo, who also interviewed members of KMP and Tsem Ladrang for a feature that he will be doing about the book and launch.


The venue was all filled with gorgeousness. It was like Alice in Wonderland grew up, got sophisticated and decorated this little space with everything beautiful she'd ever seen. Our very own Bill Keith turned every corner into something magical, marrying candles, flowers and Buddha statues with the uber-luxe, rich, candle-lit interiors of the rooms. Tsongkhapa, Tara, Heruka - they were all there with us to celebrate this new wave of blessings in Londontown, and beyond!

And the icing on the cake? As if the room wasn't filled with enough splendidness, KMP girls and our most fashionable, most darling Liaison Ruby Khong charmed every person in the room when they showed up in Bill's stunning, award-winning creations - traditional kebayas with cute, modern twists and lots and lots of cheeky sheerness. Sexy, subtle, professional, beautiful - what's not to love about Kechara's daring twists in their Dharma work hehe!


We all turned heads, and almost all the guests came up to tell us how absolutely-fabulous-darling, we looked!.One of the guests of the party even commented to Susan that she was very surprised to see how "normal" we looked. She was amazed that we were so well-dressed yet so spiritual at the same time. (I especially love the word "normal", as if spiritual people are supposed to be odd and dress hideously).


Our-Kindest-Most-Fabulous-Ever adviser Joan gave Just-As-Fabulous speech which introduced Rinpoche, Dharma and her work with KMP to all her friends. Though the speech was short, Joan was full of laughter and that special energy that can come only from her deep and wonderful commitment to bringing the joy of Rinpoche's teachings to others. Her concluding line - "Never say you can't, because that isn't the real you speaking" - brought everyone in the room back to the heart of Rinpoche's teachings: to be the best person you can be.

Head Ladrang Liaison, JP Thong, then also delivered a speech to give a brief introduction to Rinpoche and his teachings. Drawing on personal experiences, JP especially shared how he and Ladrang Associate Liaison/ Director of Fundraising May Phng were both inspired to commit to working with Rinpoche, to bring Dharma to the world.

Nobody left the evening without a giant smile, plenty of happy hugs and a "Gurus for Hire" goodie bag that contained within a biography of Rinpoche and a beautifully-framed quotation, extracted from the book. Little pieces of Enlightenment are now flying around London and, we hope, uplifting hearts. Here's to many more book launches to go global!

In line with the global launch in London, Gurus for Hire, Enlightenment for Sale is now available at all Kechara outlets in KL, kechara.com/eShop, amazon.com, gardners.com and barnesandnoble.com amongst others so do get your copy now now now now now! If you do, I'll give you a kiss for free.

PS Many more photos-full-of-loveliness to come soon. Our very lovely photographer for the day, Pete Biggs (the bestest friend a girl could have at university!) so so so kindly offered to photographer the event pro bono, and even stayed back extra late to take as many photos as possible. He'll prepare and pass over the photos for me soon.

London: KMP visits the Thames Buddhist Vihara

Really, you do find the loveliest surprises in London! There is plenty of the glitz, glamour and the shinest of samsara here in London, but there are also pockets of spirituality and smiles from the Three Jewels.



On Day 4 here (Friday), Susan, Han and I made our way down to the Thames Buddhist Vihara. My parents have been friends with this Sri Lankan monk, Venerable Somaratana, for 31 years and KMP decided to pay him a visit to say hello, make some offerings and donate some of our books to his centre.


We traipsed our way on buses, trains and more buses on the dreariest of English mornings to East Croydon where we received a very warm welcome from Venerable in his small suburban centre. After making offerings of flowers, lots and lots of delicious M&S goodies and Rinpoche's books (Gurus for Hires, Face of Enlightenment and If Not Now, When?), Venerable spent some time talking with us in the main gompa of their centre. The centre even prepared a wonderful vegetarian lunch for us which we gobbled like attached and greedy girls.


Venerable shared a lot about his experiences in setting up and maintaining a centre in London and what he had to go through in the past 30+ years. It was very touching to hear what he had to go through. In short, dear lovely everyone, it is exactly the same struggles and difficulties that Rinpoche has been recounting to us for years. The same monster students exist everywhere in the world! Venerable has been a monk since he was 10 years old and has been in London since the late 1970s. He has also set up an orphanage, library and temple in Sri Lanka - the funds he manages to raise from his centre London go back towards supporting all this in Sri Lanka. He shared with us that although it is difficult, we "must sacrifice our lives for others."


Gurus for Hire, Enlightenment for Sale was the perfect book to share with their centre. The experiences and struggles of teachers and Dharma centres which Rinpoche has often explained to us is experienced everywhere in the world, whatever tradition they are from. Truly, how kind the Lamas are for never giving up on any of us and putting up with all this for others everywhere!

We left with big boxes of Ceylon tea that Venerable packed us off with, warmth in our hearts and the knowledge that the only way we can make the work of kind teachers like Venerable "easier" is to commit as much of our work and life to the Dharma as he had. And how lucky we are to have a Lama back home to show us how.